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Session #3 ... Wednesday ... What is beauty?
Session #3 PDF File Worksheet

 

Memory verse:


But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him:  for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart.
                         1 Samuel 16:7

 

 

Charming Opportunities Journal:

Have you recorded anything in your Charming Opportunities Journal either today, yesterday afternoon, or last night?

 

 

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Literature:

Audio-Bible
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Learn about how gorgeous Sarai was that Pharaoh attempted to take her unlawfully by using intimidation to have her in his home!
Genesis Chapter 12:  2:43
Genesis Chapter 13:  2:21

Learn about Rebekah, Isaac's wife
Genesis Chapter 24:  8:29

Now it's time to enjoy Jacob and Rachel!
Genesis Chapter 28:  3:13
Genesis Chapter 29:  4:01
Genesis Chapter 30:  5:16
Genesis Chapter 31:  7:11
                             Total Genesis Time:  33:14

 

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Movie:  Helen of Troy (part 1)
Arrows rain death.  Courageous soldiers clamber up stone walls.  Swords clang, men shout, fires rage.  Yet the waves of combatants storming Troy are turned back.  To defeat the undefeatable ultimately requires brains as much as brawn.  So the Greeks, feigning withdrawal, offer a gift of treachery:  a mammoth wooden horse that secretly houses their fighting men.  Homer's Illiad surges to the screen in Helen of Troy from the 50s heyday of big screen spectaculars.  This lavish epic captures some 30,000 people on screen at a then-huge cost of $6 million.  Stars include Sir Cedrick Hardwicke and Brigitte Bardot (Warner Brothers Pictures, color, 1955, 141 minutes)

 

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Discussion:

1)  Compare and contrast how the humanist and the Christian views beauty.  Did the humanists view Helen's beauty as a blessing or curse?  How was Esther's beauty viewed?  

See:  Beauty:  So What Is it? PDF File Worksheet to do this assignment.

 

2)  What are the consequences of the thoughts of the humanists in the story of Helen of Troy?  What are the consequences of the thoughts of the believers in the historical account of Esther?

See:  Thoughts Have Consequences PDF File Worksheet to do this assignment.


3)  Advertising.  

     a)  Television.  View three different television commercials that sell some sort of beauty product.  Do these commercials imply that if you use this product you will be ... a better person ? ... others will admire you? ... that you must use this product or others will mock, humiliate and abuse you? ... what is the message behind the advertisement?

     b)  Magazines.  View three different magazine ads that sell some sort of beauty product.  You may want to clip out these ads and paste them to some typing paper to view them at the same time.  Do these commercials imply that if you use this product you will be ... a better person ? ... others will admire you? ... that you must use this product or others will mock, humiliate and abuse you? ... what is the message behind the advertisement?

     c)  Radio.  Listen to three different radio commercials that sell some sort of beauty product.  Do these commercials imply that if you use this product you will be ... a better person ? ... others will admire you? ... that you must use this product or others will mock, humiliate and abuse you? ... what is the message behind the advertisement?

4)  Compare / contrast the beauty advertisements that you evaluated to the humanistic concept of beauty with that of Helen of Troy.  To what extent are these beauty advertisements in agreement/disagreement with Esther?  


5)  In the culture and society of today, everything tends to center around self.  Unfortunately, this has infiltrated Christendom.  Courtesy is a way of putting others at ease and working to make sure they feel comfortable.  Some have confused this to mean that we must always agree with others, but this is not so.  We cannot love what God hates, nor can we hate what God loves.  To do so would be to violate the First Commandment and put ourselves in God's place.  This just cannot be.  Yet, we can still practice courtesy without compromise.  Discuss the importance of courtesy and the various options we may have to demonstrate courtesy under difficult situations.

The following newer testament scripture verses are an example among many in both the older and newer testaments of where the art of courtesy in the West has come about.


But they understood not that saying, and were afraid to ask Him.  And He came to Capernaum:  and being in the house He asked them, What was it that ye disputed among yourselves by the way?  But they held their peace:  for by the way they had disputed among themselves, who should be the greatest.   And He sat down, and called the twelve, and saith unto them, If any man desire to be first, the same shall be last of all, and servant of all.  
      — Mark 9:32-35

 

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Challenge:

1)  You have a beauty product that you know is legitimate and will help others.  How do you go about telling others about your product without attempting to shame your potential customer into buying it?

         Do a newspaper/magazine, radio, and/or television commercial.

Important Note:  Hold on to your ads you will need them later.

2)  Self-Control:  Sometimes it is most difficult to listen to someone without giving the impression that we are just waiting for the person to stop talking so we can tell OUR story or say what WE want.  Not only is this rude, it is not respectful.  Do you like it when this is done unto you?  No ! of course not !  We will now practice attentive listening no matter if we are listening to a lecture, concert, private conversation or sermons.  Do not be discouraged if you cannot master this difficult task the first time.  However, aim to gain mastery in this area.  Oh, and, yes, this means you must be polite to those that you do not personally care for.

 

;-)

 

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Activities:

First we will repeat Monday's & Tuesday's activities,

Monday:
1)  Take a shower.
2)  We will use deodorant so we do not draw any unnecessary attention to ourselves like the hypocrites in the newer testament.
3)  Put on some becoming clean clothing.
4)  Look at your nails.  Are they clean from grime?
5)  We will brush our teeth to make them sparkle.
6)  We will brush our hair in a becoming manner.

Tuesday:
7)  Practice walking with a heavy book on your head.  Are you a little better at it today?
8)  Cheerfulness.  Are you smiling?  Try to say something cheerful that is sincere and legitimate to someone in your family.  Have you reduced your complaining and mumbling?
9)  Courteous.  Have you ceased making inappropriate noises at table?
10)  Review why facial cleansing important.

 

Today, we will ...

1)  Table Manners:  We will now make one place setting with our best china.  You will learn how to approach the dining table and wait until the waiter (your mother or other classmate) holds out your chair.  You will learn how and when to use the salad fork, regular fork, butter knife, steak knife, spoon, dessert spoon, knife rests, bread plate, salad, fruit bowl, soup, how to hold a tea/coffee cup, glass of water, the difference between the water / wine glass, how to "close the door" when you are done eating (that means to place the knife/fork horizontally in the middle of the plate, and what to do with the napkin after the meal, etc.

2)  Proper Dressing:  Would you wear the same type of clothing to a recital as you would to a picnic?  Would you wear the      same thing to church that you wear while cleaning or gardening?  (Note:  Of course, we would encourage those coming to church to attend in whatever they have on and to make them feel not only wanted and important, but desired!  However, it is important for us to attend church in our best since He gave us His best — He gave His life.)  

We will look through magazines pointing out pictures best illustrating what to wear when — going out to dinner, the zoo, re-enactments, cleaning/gardening, church, weddings, funerals, etc.  Proper dressing is similar to table manners and courteous small talk.  The goal is to make others feel comfortable, not drawing attention to ourselves by wearing inappropriate clothing.

3) Thankfulness is essential. What do you have to be thankful for?  Look around you. Attempt to thank at least one person in your family for something they do on a daily basis.  Thank     a family member for what you really appreciate about them and makes them special.  Make this a daily activity.

 

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Music & Art:

It is so easy to select one type of music and only listen to that type, but that would be like selecting to eat peanut butter sandwiches for the rest of one's life and not enjoying chicken, salad, strawberries, etc.  Attempt to expose yourself to a variety of music at least two to three times per week (if not everyday).  Helping others to feel at ease and encouraging them to talk about their likes/dislikes is essential to charm and beauty.  Art is similar.  Go to the library and check out books at least every other week that exposes you to various types of art.  Go to At the Movies and learn how Sister Wendy can explain various types of art to you on the Misc. page.

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Geography:

1)  Compare / Contrast the weather from Greece with your own for one week.  Continue to compare / Contrast the weather from Persia (Iraq) and Israel with your own for one week.  Do you think the weather from these
countries had an impact on clothing? housing?

2)  Locate Greece on a globe, map, and atlas.  See if you can locate Persia (Iraq) and Israel on a globe, map, and atlas faster than you have in the past.  Identify the capital of each country — Greece, Persia (Iraq), and Israel.  Do you think the terrain from these countries had an impact on clothing? housing?

3)  Make a meal from Greece, Persia (Iraq) and/or Israel for your family.  Do you think the weather and terrain from these countries had an impact on clothing? housing?  
(okay, okay, so I like baklava!)

 

 

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What does the Bible Say?
            Session #3 click here

Physical Beauty

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A.  Temporal Beauty
      
Seen in nature ... Hosea 14:6 and Matthew 6:28,29
       
Consumed in dissipation ... Isaiah 28:1
       
Esther winner of beauty contest ... Esther 2:1-17
       
Destroyed by sin ... Psalm 39:11
       
Ends in grave ... Psalm 49:14
B.  Beauty in women
      
Not chief value ... Proverbs 31:30
       
Beauty is dangerous without discretion ... Proverbs 11:22
       
Source of temptation ... Genesis 6:2 and 2 Samuel 11:2-5
       
Leads to marriage ... Deuteronomy 21:11
C.  Examples of beauty
     
A bride's beauty ... Psalm 45:11
      Sarah's beauty ... Genesis 12:11
      Rebekah's beauty ... Genesis 24:15,16
      Rachel's beauty ... Genesis 29:17
      Daughters of Job ... Job 42:15
      Abigail's beauty ... 1 Samuel 25:3
      Bath-sheba's beauty ... 2 Samuel 11:2,3
      
Tamar's beauty ... 2 Samuel 13:1
      Abishag's beauty ... 1 Kings 1:4
      Vashti's beauty ... Esther 1:22
      Esther's beauty ... Esther 2:7
C.  Beauty in Men
      
Of man ... Isaiah 44:13
       Of the aged ... Proverbs 20:29
       Joseph's beauty ... Genesis 39:6
       David's beauty ... 1 Samuel 16:12,13
       Absalom's beauty ... 2 Samuel 14:25
E.  Spiritual Beauty
      
The Messiah ... Psalm 110:3 and Isaiah 52:7
       
The true Israel ... Psalm 45:8-11 and Song of Solomon 1:8
       
Christian ministers ... Romans 10:15
       
Holy garments ... Isaiah 52:1
       
Christ's rejection by Israel ... Zechariah 11:7-14

 

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